Take My Advice, I’m Not Using It!

If the problems I am dealing with were someone else’s problems, I would have great advice to give. Intellectually, I know good actions to take. Why don’t I take my own effing advice!? Apparently, I’m not alone in this struggle. Dan Ariely is a  behavioral economist, best-selling author and advice columnist for The Wall Street … Read more

Improve Relationships with Immediacy


This post defines and explains the skill of immediacy, so you can begin using immediacy to improve your relationships immediately. What is Immediacy? Immediacy is a person’s ability to use the immediate situation to invite the person they’re communicating with to look at what’s going on between them in the relationship. Immediacy can involve being … Read more