Covid-19 Makes Momz scared to go to the Hospital

I’m hella scared, and I don’t know what I don’t know. Doc says I shoulg get momz to the ER. I agree. Momz is fighting me. Pandemic has her scared of catching COVID at the hospital. I don’t blame her. Caregiver Stress. Heavy day today. Just got off the phone with Momz cardiologist. I’m trying … Read more

Take My Advice, I’m Not Using It!

If the problems I am dealing with were someone else’s problems, I would have great advice to give. Intellectually, I know good actions to take. Why don’t I take my own effing advice!? Apparently, I’m not alone in this struggle. Dan Ariely is a  behavioral economist, best-selling author and advice columnist for The Wall Street … Read more

Truth is Meaningless?

We each create meaning and truth in our own minds. People talk about living “their truth.” Are there varying degrees of truth, or is truth absolute? I am coming to accept that truth is entirely subjective, and depends on what you believe about life, about yourself, and about others. Unfortunately, this leaves me adrift in … Read more

Life is Too Short to be Miserable

Kim’s Wisdom A good time is always happening somewhere. Life is too short to be miserable. If you are unhappy in part of your life, change that situation, and find the good times. Why Be Miserable? Sometimes, something familiar, even if it’s horrible, is more comfortable than uncertainty. This is essentially being stuck in a … Read more

Sh*ts and Giggles!

Laughter is the Best Medicine

It is said that laughter is the best medicine. I believe it. If you don’t sh*t, you die, and if you don’t giggle, you die. Catharsis originally meant “a violent purging of one’s bowels. Now we use the term to describe emotional release. In either meaning, catharsis, releasing through laughter, is very powerful. It’s good … Read more

Always Waiting for Something to Happen

Waiting for something to happen

Sometimes, if you’re not having success, you might be waiting for something to happen. The outcome you want will always be the result of something you do. Waiting for something to happen doesn’t work. Making more money, and living a more fulfilling life comes from the decisions you make, and the actions you take. It’s … Read more

7 Stages of Personal Change in NLP

7 stages of personal change

In this post we discuss 7 stages of personal change as understood through NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). Personal change is an internal experience, and also an external one at the same time. It stems from a change in our mindset and thus branches out from there. We are always moving toward some things, and away from … Read more

The Map is Not the Territory

tourist map of Italy

“The map is not the territory” is a phrase coined by Alfred Korzybski in the 1900’s. What does it mean though? It means that our ideas about how the world works will only ever be an approximation, or an estimation, of the ‘actual’ world. You cannot drive on the lines of a map, nor swim … Read more

What do you need: We are Abundant Already

Already dreaming of abundance

I’ve observed that many people who are unhappy, are unhappy because they do not believe that all their needs are being met. Truthfully, most people have their needs met, and often more than met. We confuse needs and wants, and this is an important distinction to make if we want to feel abundance in our … Read more

Notes on The Shocking Truth About Happiness

The Shocking Truth About Happiness T. Harv Eker

The following post contains the notes I made while watching a T. Harv Eker seminar online called “The Shocking Truth About Happiness.” It’s like a Coles Notes version, but mine, so it’s Kim’s Notes! You can check out T. Harv Eker’s free trainings here. The Shocking Truth About Happiness The way we’re taught to be … Read more